Let's play Tease

Let us look at these two scenarios and you tell me which one you would like to be part of:

Scene one:

You are driving home after a very loong week of work and looking forward to the weekend! You think, damn! I really busted ass this week and I deserve a really fun weekend! Can't wait to see my girl!...

You park the car outside the apartment, and happily walk up the stairs... You know that she must be over your place cause her car is also parked downstairs. Your heart beats quickly as you approach your apt. door, anticipating a hot and sexy weekend. You open it and immediately start looking for her. You yell out her name and she walks out of the bathroom in her long sweats with a baggy t-shirt that you bought back in high school. You notice that her hair is pulled back and that she might have even washed her face after work... She kisses you and tells you that she is super tired after a long week. She turns away to text her friend back on her blackberry...The mood is set. You're probably staying in. You grab a beer immediately from the fridge, unbutton your pants and kick off your shoes and grab the tv remote.

Scene two:

You are driving home from a very long week and are looking forward to an exciting weekend away from all the demands of the week...

You park the car outside your place and realize that she must be over your apt because her car is also parked downstairs. Your heart immediately starts beating faster as you anticipate a hot and sexy weekend... You open the front door and immediately start looking for her. You yell her name out and she walks out of the bathroom. She has obviously taken off her work clothes... she is now wearing a white wife-beater tank top with no bra, boy short underwear that rides up her butt and striped socks that go over her knees with a double pink and purple stripe. They actually match her Bootie underwear! WOW!! Her make up is still intact and as a matter of fact, she smells delicious, almost as if she had just sprayed on some perfume right before you got home! You can totally see through the tshirt!! You are immediately aroused! She leaps onto your arms and you share a long hot kiss... You decide that you might as well stay home! You hand her over the bottle of champagne that you bought before coming home and you ask her to chill it while you change your work clothes.. This is going to be an amazing night!

OK PEOPLE!! The end result is the same... you are staying home for the night. What is the difference? EFFORT AND APPRECIATION!!... This romancing stuff is a DANCE... What are we in search of anyway? Seduction, passion, excitement, appreciation. Both scenes can be any of us. As men and women we need to take note. How often do you try to "romance" your man/woman? Who says that it should be only for anniversaries or holidays?

Girlies, here is a special something for you:

IF YOU DON'T SEDUCE YOUR MAN OFTEN, SOMEONE ELSE WILL... But first, you need to seduce YOURSELF!! Find that special area of your body that you love, and make sure that he is exposed to it frequently... the fact that you love it and share it with him makes you SEXY to him!! Men are not as vicious as we are when it comes to criticizing our body... men love and appreciate a girl who feels sexy regardless of her size.

Men, here is a special something for you:

IF YOU DON'T SEDUCE YOUR WOMAN OFTEN, SOMEONE ELSE WILL... Take a moment, heck, several moments every day, to reach out to her and remind her of how sexy and unique she is. Let her know that no one else makes you feel as she does. Make sure that you catch her when she is acting sexy and secure about herself and let her know that there is nothing sexier than when she "flaunts her stuff for you." See, us girls need to hear that often, especially from the man that we obsess about. Yes, us girls obsess about our love life... give us ammunition to obsess about good stuff. Give us positives to talk to our girlfriends about. The bottle of champagne is definitely a great touch :)

Well, chicos y chicas, I hope that you enjoyed this week's blog. I am giving you some real and tangible ammunition to apply to your courtship dance. DO NOT TAKE THINGS FOR GRANTED. No matter WHO you are, we all need praise, appreciation and attention. If you are reading this and thinking, "not me," then you are in denial. Let's not forget that we are all soooooo much more alike than we are different. Please let me know how it all works out for you.

Til next time!